>>8705I'm sorry, nonas. I'll admit I'm a part of the Neutral Menace, but it's not because I think X/Y and Y/X are the same. I am fully aware they're different, and that's part of the fun. In one of my ships, I can't see either of them wanting to top, so I think they have to take turns. Alternatively, due to their personalities, it's very easy to see it working either way. In another case, I think one dynamic makes more sense, but it's the less popular dynamic, so I've had to learn to adapt and appreciate the opposing dynamic
even though my preferred dynamic makes way more sense from a characterization standpoint for this ship. For this couple, I've learned why others see it the opposite way, and it's given me a new appreciation for the different ways they can be written. I think it depends a lot on how the characters are written, and as long as they're not OOC, I'm just happy to see my favorite characters together in any capacity lol.