>>4896I agree with both points. First of all that the dynamic is the main thing. I cannot think of ANY case where I was ever attracted to a character or ship before getting into their dynamics and personalities. I might maybe (rarely) think "cool design", but that's it. The obsession only starts after I started sympathizing with both of the characters individually and saw the dynamics.
The other thing is that ugliness is very subjective, especially with anime. I saw non-fans calling some of the characters mentioned here (like Draluc, Sadamune, Tsurumi or even Reigen, just as an example) "stupid looking" or "ugly" but none of them are. Thing is that the standard anime design is so doll-like that every skinny or older character or every dude with beard and some actual facial features like a visible bone structure or an uncommon simplistic or "western" artstyle might get called "ugly". I think that fans don't even mean it, they do it for fun or to set them apart from the generic looking dudes.
My point just is that pop culture is focused on k-pop tier idols and anime characters that lots of dudes that would be genuinely handsome IRL are considered ugly by the anime fandom.
Think the only men I love that I would call.. maybe not actually sexy are Tsukishima (I love his design, but before I loved it I considered him ugly lol) due to his weird face and
Harrier Du Bois. But the more anime I watch and games I play the more I associate common pretty guys with blandness. Maybe I am getting older, maybe I just watched so much that getting tired is normal. But most characters aren't expressive enough for me and lack uniqueness. I am happier when the dudes I ship have weird but unique design that makes them special. I ship them and know "this only works with them".
But my biggest problem with most anime is the lack of expression and charisma. Maybe it's a lack of social skill from the author's side, maybe they don't care and solely bank on pretty designs. I don't know, but if all a character does is standing there, throwing a cool line and looking nice I won't ever feel anything for them.