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Confess anything you wanna get off your chest.
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>>19 No.12810
>>12808Okay based. The characters I'm referring specifically here are Derek and Stiles and Peter kek
No.12827
When you have beef with someone do you feel the struggle of wanting to get petty bitch revenge versus wanting to be the better person?
No.12828
>>12827Petty bitch revenge has always made me feel like a loser. Nobody wins in that scenario.
No.12829
>>12827there’s no struggle for me because petty bitch revenge is my favorite. i’ve said fuck it and taken the petty bitch route in life before so much as considering the righteous path tbh. even in stupid online debates, i end up being catty and inflammatory rather than blocking and moving on. full disclosure though this is not good advice and it will probably come back to bite me in the ass someday.
No.12830
>>12827in any scenario where i'd get petty revenge it would probably be more trouble than its worth so i just try to move on
No.12831
>>12827Depends on the beef. I usually just carry on as normal but don't forget.
>>12829>full disclosure though this is not good advice and it will probably come back to bite me in the ass someday.I admire you for this because I'm way too scared of being screenshotted and internet detective'd and having that stress in my life. That scenario is about as likely as winning the lottery but I just can't shake the anxiety.
>>12807When I read Star Trek and other live action fic I am usually imagining "fanart" editions of every character.
No.12836
>>12829I definitely understand the feeling. If someone has slighted me I will hold a grudge and not let go even if I know it's unhealthy and there's a big chance the other person already moved on.
No.12924
I barely talk about my irl life in yaoi adjacent online spaces because hyper-feminist types usually get judgy on me, i don't really need to talk about it because i am happy as it is but it's demoralizing i can't share my experiences
No.12925
>>12924We're all anons here so if you ever feel like changing your mind later you may as well vent here and ignore anons who annoy you.
No.13013
I would get a companion robot for myself if they become available within my lifetime.
No.13014
>>13013How do you think you would treat them? I feel like I wouldn't get one simply because I would start feeling bad for the companion robot even if it was a LLM with no actual sentience. I mean, I guess if it functioned like a more animalistic pet, maybe I'd get one but one that acts like a human would be likely be no-go for me
No.13015
>>13014NTA but I agree. Getting a humanoid robot companion would make me feel like I own a slave while a robot cat would be ideal because I like cats but I hate dealing with fleas and litterboxes.
No.13018
>>13014I dont ignore the possibility of getting weirded out by having a humanoid figure who does most of the housework while lacking a true personality, interests or even free will. Specially because I don't put much faith that the simulations of human dialogue/personality would be good enough.
But, I imagine myself treating him more like a roommate, a very cute one though.
IDK, I dont even care about reciprocity, I just think it would be nice to return home everyday to see a pretty young man who doesnt behave like a real man.
No.13022
>>13014From the time I've spent with AI chatbots I know I would inevitably fuck my companionbot and then spend a week not being able to look at it because of the disgust I feel about myself.
When they are made publicly available I hope I'm not too old or they're not too pricey.
No.13023
>>13013I want two robot anime catboys who fall in love with each other
No.13024
>>13013>>13014I'm disabled so I'd want one to help do things I can't like stirring motions and opening twist lids, and get stuff for me like water when I can't get up.
I just know I will say please and thank you at it like it even matters. Every single time. I will feel stupid but tell myself that's how it knows the end of the command. Then I'll start telling it every time I leave the house and come back too and justify it as so it knows not to call for help. It would be so hard not to talk at it like that when you're alone.
No.13048
I always considered myself ace because I genuinely don't care about neither men nor women romantically and/or sexually but if I were forced to choose, I really don't fucking like men.
Men are always more prone to be irrational horndogs, violent beasts and most of the world's cruelest things can be attributed to men. Even if 1 in 9000 men was 'good', he's still a man. Naturally born to be evil.
I don't think women are excempt from evil or being cruel and I don't care about them either, but at least I don't need to hear women talk about how men who are past the age of 13 are used up rods or w/e the equivalent of moid pedotalk is like.
Maybe I'm slowly becoming a closeted lesbian but I'm not really attracted to women at all. I just really really do not like men.
No.13049
>>13048Interact with real people offline, you're talking about terminally online losers and a minority.
No.13050
>>13048You don't need a label. Sexuality can be private and complex. If you feel nothing for either sex, you feel nothing. It is what it is. You cannot "become" a closeted lesbian, you are one or you are not. If someone asks about your sexuality, just say 'I'm not looking for anything" or decline to answer and move on with your life. You do not need to choose anyone, though if you are slicking it to BL, then you have some form of sexuality but honestly, it doesn't really matte if you have no interest in pursuing any one in real life. Don't obsess over it and just accept it. If you one day find someone that you want to pursue, then so be it but if not, so be it. There are plenty of people who don't care about sex and romance and just live their lives.
No.13051
>>13048sexuality isn’t about liking personalities, it’s just about sexual attraction. a straight woman who hates men bc they’re evil is still straight because she finds some of them hot even if she would never actually date them. if you have low libido it might hard to discern but you shouldn’t stress too much about it.
No.13052
>>13051i sort of try to explain it to people as something that pertains to genitals
No.13053
>>13048We need to make an infographic of some sort for all these anons who think they're asexual.
No.13054
>>13053To be fair I used to think I was asexual as well when I was a teen wince I'd only ever experienced atteaction to 2D characters, then once I hit adulthood and started dating I realized I wasn't. Not to belittle the other nonna but based on my own experience I think "asexuality" is more correlated with lack of experience than anything else.
No.13063
>>13054Me too. Trying to explain this without causing offense isn't easy. There's nothing wrong with being inexperienced and it's not something to feel embarrassed about.
No.13064
>>13048You seem straight, but you don't have to broadcast anything private to the world. Misogynists are horrible, but it's okay to like dick.
>>13049>>13051seconding
>>13054I've always thought asexuality was misunderstanding or inexperience with your own female sexuality. I'm not trying to belittle anyone either since I've dealt with intense shame and embarrassment around my own sexuality my whole life as well.
No.13065
>>13064>I've always thought asexuality was misunderstanding or inexperience with your own female sexuality.In my mind I find it easier to just say I'm asexual when pressed on it as opposed to "I genuinely don't care about sex or dating so I don't know if I just have a low sex drive or if I have an antisocial personality disorder that make me unable to want to find a partner but in the end I really don't give a shit."
No.13066
>>13065The thing is asexuality isn't real especially with the gendie tendies start spouting nonsense like it's okay for ace people to have sex or masturbate or lust over others. That's completely ridiculous.
No.13067
>>13066You're a dumbass.
Just because someone isn't attracted to women or men doesn't mean their libido doesn't function at all. You're correlating higher cognitive function with involuntary compulsion.
inb4 I'm an Aiden. I'm not. You're just extremely biased and acting on internet education
No.13068
>>13067And you’re a retard.
No one will ever take your claims or sexuality seriously when you say and do thinks that's contradictory to its meaning.
No.13069
>>13068>you>youNo anon. I'm not the ace person here. You're in more denial than troons trying to convince a lesbian they're a woman.
You sound like an idiot because you get your knowledge off kiwifarms or some other garbage.
No.13070
>>13065There's nothing wrong with living like that, you do you.
No.13071
>>13067not having sexual attraction is what makes a supposed asexual person… asexual. lol
No.13072
>>13067>Just because someone isn't attracted to women or men doesn't mean their libido doesn't function at all.Uhhhhh yes, yes it does. What the hell are you even masturbating to if it's not men OR women?
No.13073
>>13072Finding someone physically attractive is one thing. Wanting to fuck them is another. You can be asexual and still like orgasms. It does not mean that yo go out, point at a man, and say you want to fuck them but you're still asexual. It means you can recognize someone is hot without the urge to fuck them.
Being horny has nothing to do with looking at someone. Sometimes it just happens for actually no reason. That reason mostly being made of human anatomy. Being asexual also does not magically make you unable to get pregnant or impregnate others. A body is going to want those things regardless of who or what they're attracted to. Otherwise secret gays wouldn't have managed to exist.
No.13074
>>13072Bouncing motion and soft warm. They're pretty good. Feeling full after a meal but not sick as well. Trying to push through a tight gap that rubs on the hips is also a banger. Shounen power ups and transformations are sexy. Climax allegories and notions of sexual activity don't need a defined individual.
No.13075
>>13072there's a difference between masturbating solely based on the sensation of pleasure but with a blank mind vs masturbation to thoughts of people. not everyone masturbates TO something.
No.13076
>>13075Maybe anon's never gotten off with no thoughts before. Or maybe they can't understand what period horny is. Or morning wood. All things that can exist without any relation to the same or opposite gender
No.13078
>>13055I think they're cute in some cases too. It makes the characters so ridiculous that it circles back to being endearing. I like the idea of a cute, fluffy manga of classic yankee getting into shenanigans while being pursued by a pretty, cute pretty top.
No.13079
>>13073finding someone hot is the definition of sexual attraction. it does not matter if you want to act on it or not, just that you feel that way.
>everyone’s body craves procreationweird and untrue
>otherwise secret gays wouldn’t existbisexuals.
>>13076>>13075>masturbating with no thoughtsto bring this back to the original topic: this is Not what online “asexual” fakers are claiming they do anyways. they literally do claim that it’s “valid and ok” to lust and have sex while still calling yourself asexual
No.13081
>>13069>focusing on the (You)Kek pathetic, and still a retard
No.13082
>>13076>Maybe anon's never gotten off with no thoughts beforeHow do I make this happen? Even if it feels physically comforting I lose arousal before I reach orgasm if there's nothing I'm fixating on.
No.13083
>>13082It's different for everybody. But honestly the sensation without visuals is enough for me. Some people need audio, visual or additional feeling somewhere to get off and that's perfectly normal.
No.13085
I'm convinced you are lying about madturbating just by bodily sensation with no thoughts. How the fuck even can you get aroused just by touching your own body and not using your mind. That sounds fake as fuck to me.
No.13086
>>13085The clit is an orgasm button, nona
No.13087
>>13086You have to be aroused first for your clit to do anything though? Otherwise it's just the same as touching other soft areas like your lips. Do people seriously just get horny sitting around on their couch with *zero* external or internal trigger?? Do people get horny filling out spreadsheets at work??
No.13089
>>13087Well, yeah. Sometimes your body will simply deicide it's time to get horny.
No.13092
>>13086Have you ever had an orgasm? I agree with
>>13089 that physical arousal can happen without reason but I can't grasp having an orgasm without being horny. This might be a good thing because masturbating is already too easy.
No.13094
>>13087You've never sat on the heel of your foot or put your hand in your lap while working at the computer? Heat + pressure + probably needing to pee = clit noooo not now, I didn't mean that
No.13095
>>13094I feel the need to pee when that happens but I have never gotten horny. And yes, my clit works fine when I actually masturbate.