/ot/ - Off-Topic

>>11140
>what do you look for in a ship for that to work?
There’s a lot of ships with similarish dynamics to my otp out there, the only downside is that most of them don’t have the exact configurations of my otp. Like another ship will have one aspect but not the other aspects. But even with just a little similarity, I’m happy.
>>11143
>the internet gave me gross kinks
My all time favorite kink is sadly really unpopular it seems so I have to take what I can get. I have another kink I really like and it’s thankfully pretty popular with my otp.

>>11147
agreed but there are a subset of fujos that seem to have a mindset along the lines of, "i would never desecrate or demean my favorite characters by thinking about them fucking because i only care about them in true, meaningful ways!"
as if the two thoughts can't coexist at the same time

>>11153
This is so bizarre to me because surely if they’re your otp, you’d have to have thought of them fucking at least once?Or at least some intimate soft core scenes.

>>11143
Why do you think that this would ruin a character? The moment you've stopped the thoughts no longer exist. Enjoy what makes you fap and try not to think too much on it.

>>11144
>Yes but I only get horny around ovulation anyway so it's rare.
I didn't believe this was real until I made a masturbation diary. I don't know if it's accurate to say that I masturbate more during ovulation, but when I do it's quicker and easier.

>>11155
>Why do you think that this would ruin a character?
NTA but I get it. If your otp is more vanilla like destiel, then it’d be hard to imagine dean or castiel doing something extreme like necro, torture, kidnapping, etc. Some ships just aren’t suited for certain kinks.

>>11138
>My otp doesn’t have much art and is pretty small in its fandom
Funny that you say that because that's what happens with my OTP too but I actually am loyal to it so I have to make comissions of them. If I can't draw at least I'll pay someone for it.

>>11153
This happens to me with SOME characters, but with others I want them gagged and raped and destroyed. It really just depends. Some characters I just can't think of sexually (I'm not opposed to seeing fanart that happens to be nsfw if I see it).
I often find myself in this dilemma >>11156 that some ships I DO like, just kinda don't have ways to actually fuck without it coming off even if at least ooc. I know all fanworks are ooc to some extent, some people go "fuck it" and write it/draw anyway but I just can't do that. I can't just plop characters into a modern AU and call it a day.
Actually, this happens so much in the Orb fandom where 90% of works are AU. I mean, I get it and it's fun, but something about Badeni being a chaste priest in his canon is a little more appealing than average normal guy

>>11157
>comissions
I honestly forget this is an option. I don’t use socmed for fandoms outside of ao3 so I’m not even sure how I would go about commissioning art for them.

>>11157
>This happens to me with SOME characters, but with others I want them gagged and raped and destroyed.
are you more attached emotionally to the characters that you *don't* want to see fucked up? or is it just that there are no in-character scenarios that allow them to get that way?
i've been trying to understand why some people think like this if they aren't opposed to that content in general. i enjoy seeing all my favorites raped/tortured/etc., just on a purely selfish and horny level

>>11155
>Why do you think that this would ruin a character?
Because I already know from past experience. I learned that shit a long time ago and it has 100% ruined fandoms/characters for me. I have plenty of kinks that I'm cool with and happy to make content for, it's just the specific ones I hate that hit the 'time to fap now' button in my subconscious. Who the fuck knows why.

>>11135
I'm impressed by your loyalty to your OTP but I will get turned on by any fantasy that turns me on kek. Characters I ship are a definite bonus though.
>>11136
No hate to the OP at all but goon / gooner just annoys me because people label anything from suggestive material to just masturbating as gooning. An annoying label. Masturbating and having sexual desires and fantasies is normal despite what some on LC may think.
>>11153
>>11157
>>11159
I love my favs so much that I do want to see them destroyed as the ultimate form of fan love. But they're all happy in my head, and the version where they get destroyed is an alternate scenario.

>>11162
probably because you hate them/feel shame and guilt around them. i used to feel the same way about some kinks i had and after i embraced them emotionally instead of feeling bad, they literally disappeared over the course of a few months lol

So accurate it hurts

>>11162
Do you want to apply these kinks to the characters you like and are holding back from doing so? I'm not meaning to sound judgemental and you ultimately know what makes you happy the best, but I do not see any harm being done by indulging in kinks privately.

>>11163
The word sounded like silly fun to me at first but now I wouldn't use goon if only to avoid associating with the other people that use it. Now I need some other word to describe overactive masturbation.

>>11163
saging my post because it's irrelevant to the discussion.

i think gooner/gooning is mostly used ironically tbh, like it's considered a haha funny word. in the few instances where i saw it being used in an actual denigratory way, it was deserved, such as zombiefied men with porn addictions that warped their views of sex and women and made them potentially dangerous individuals. even then, the men calling them that way seemed to have more of a sense of camaraderie and misplaced endearment towards the guy than anything

>>11164
Yeah, no amount of emotional introspection is going to make me stop being disgusted by literal deviantart-tier cringe fetish shit. All I can be glad for is that whatever shitty diceroll decides your mental issues at birth didn't decide to make me a scatfag.
>>11166
>Do you want to apply these kinks to the characters you like and are holding back from doing so?
If I happen to run into such content by accident of a character I like, it's a conflict between lizard brain that wants to fap in the moment and rational brain that is grossed out. Just awkward and uncomfortable overall. But no, I don't want to see it and I don't want to write it. I wouldn't write it as origfic either.

I loveee thinking about my otp fucking, I daydream about it constantly, but I never feel the urge to get off. It's like emotional masturbation to me. I just cannot get off to pornography that doesn't involve women. Is that weird?

>>11169
>It's like emotional masturbation to me.
This is how it is for me but I don't get off to porn period.
>>11165
I hate this type of person but I will defend their right to be annoying online.

I genuinely hate the word gooning but tbh I'm at the age where you start getting really pissed off at kid slang.

>>11171
I thought that regular jacking off was fapping and gooning was when you'd fap so much and so hard like a porn addict your brain would rot, that it was an advanced form of masturbation but now fapping has been replaced by gooning altogether

>>11169
Not weird, you like women. Some of us can do both but it's not going to be for everyone.
>>11172
>advanced form of masturbation
I'm stealing this for future use.

>>11138
I dislike both just because I hate how they sound, lol. But like other nona, it's probably my age. I don't like all the words ending in -ie these days either, because it sounds like baby talk. Does normie want to go for walkies? Yes he does, yessh he doooess…

>>11143
>>11168
I get what you mean, nona. I'm not in the same situation exactly, I do let my mind indulge a little, but once a month my brain loses its standards for my embarrassing fetishes and will imagine shit I am deeply ashamed of. The worst part is I daydream long plot situations about characters I like, and my fetishes will worm their way in quite easily and ok, I can let some of it slide. Then bam, it goes TOO fucking silly and I think I need to backtrack this story and pretend that never happened or I can never tell this story to another soul in my entire life. The real problem is that part of me is proud of the things my brain invents and wants to share them, but when you're super zonked with exhaustion or cramps, my personal judgement dies.

>>11172
True story, I was in a discord server with a guy who was a self proclaimed gooner. He treated it like a life style choice and told stories about using multiple PC screens to have porn videos playing at all hours, day and night, to overstimulate himself while he wrote self insert fiction about himself fucking a prostitute Miku clone from the planet Zod. Even the other men in the server thought he was a mad degenerate but kept voting not to kick him because his deranged ramblings were entertaining. He was desensitized to a point that he didn't seem to know what was normal or not to talk about with strangers in a sfw channel, and whenever he didn't talk about porn or fapping he would go into rants about real women destroying society so spiritual connection to anime through dick was the only option.

Until that I didn't realize people took the word's meaning seriously. I thought it was just an accusation aimed at anime fanboys with too many titty retweets. I wonder what he does now the word has spread.

Also while typing this I realized that in many cases it could have just been called Solo Competitive Edging.

I'm not someone who demands realism in gay anime porn, but certain touches of realism balanced with fantasy make the brst BL imo. I get especially annoyed when the seme sticks his dick into an unlubricated asshole. Even worse if it's during noncon or something. Can he at least spit on his dick and show the uke magically getting lubricated with yaoi juice? Idk why this bothers me so much but I always feel obligated to research everything for my own writing.

>>11175
>Then bam, it goes TOO fucking silly and I think I need to backtrack this story and pretend that never happened or I can never tell this story to another soul in my entire life.
Have you ever tried? I believe we are all like this but no one wants to be the person to embarrass themselves first. I'm lucky that I have friends that know and accept that I am going to overshare every detail of what I am getting off to.

I know multishippers have the mentality of "wow!! two cakes!!" when it comes to a character but for me it's anything but that. I'm a baker with my humble bakery, my bakery is my business and i'm doing my best. If another bakery is next to mine and is more sucessful and steals my customers, then what was my work for? This is why I don't understand multishippers.

>>11179
I can turn my brain off if I simply imagine the precum slick is slippery enough to work as pseudo-lube. It won't, but it's "good enough"

>>11187
I'm not sure I understand your analogy. Maybe for the fave uke x anyone type of fujo? Sometimes a character just has chemistry with more than one guy, so you ship both ships. And even if you are inclined to ship a fave with any guy who gets near him it doesn't mean you'll like every possible ship for him. I still have NOTPs and OTPs in my most multishippy fandoms.

>>11187
Maybe the bakery next door offers a cake with a different texture and flavor than yours. Maybe both are good.

>>11187
I see it as just consuming from a buffet of content. I have a favorite food, then some that are also yummy, then there are some that usually suck but can be cooked well, some food that I'm allergic to, etc. There's nothing wrong with just having a OTP though. Are you a slug or frog fujoshi? I'm a turtle with character and uke bias.

>>11170
>but I will defend their right to be annoying online.
They'll do it whether you defend them or not, just don't expect them to defend you in return.

Sounds fake as fuck but I lol'd

>>11197
This person is refering to picrel in the Gothic and Lolita wikipedia article

https://ja.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/ゴシック・アンド・ロリータ

>>11197
Samefag >>11198
The yaoi part is mentioned under that quote
stupid flood detection and stupid waiting time

>>11198
>it’s actually there
Damn I’m surprised

>>11198
Them right below talking about a lolifujo who attempted to kill her family with her boyfriend is crazy.

>>11183
Nona, even I don't find it hot when my hormones sober up. It's deeply OOC brainrot that drastically changes characters' body types and the entire focus of the story.

>>11197
>>11198
>>11200
pretty sure google auto-translated bishounen and ikemen as twinks

>try to post something on lolcow
>says I'm banned, weird cuz I haven't posted in months
>redirects me to the banned page, only to say I'm not actually banned and that I shouldn't be seeing this page
>go back to the thread to see if I can post again
>now trapped in farmcow hell, it automatically redirects me there, incognito mode works fine but it doesn't let me post
Genuinely got no clue what I posted to deserve this, I guess I did something really bad and I just completely forgot

>>11234
their jannies are retarded

>>11194
Late reply but I'm a frog. I like my OTP in all ways but as long as they're together. I don't like seme/other character or other character/uke. Most of the fans of the seme like him with someone else and it bothers me (the seme character is more popular than the uke) because the majority of his ships with other characters are ooc garbage, so I wouldn't want someone to just like my OTP and treat it as just "another cake to eat" similar to all other ships with said character

Where do nonnies here get their pictures? Do y’all use twitter or pixiv, or both?

>>11258
Danbooru and Pixiv. I don't have a twitter and their site is hell to navigate without one.

>>11258
Pixiv, Poipiku, Xitter! I'll look through Twicomi sometimes, too.

>>11260
>Poipiku
I admire your ability to solve shipping riddles and math problems.

>>11261
I haven't been subjected to anything too super esoteric yet, thankfully. Worst one thus far was trying to find when the artist shared the password among their around 12k+ posts and having negative luck with the search function.

I want to somehow write two enemies (sort of) fucking with the less popular top/bottom pairing. I'm overthinking how to make this work within the setting of the series, and I'm consuming multimedia adaptations to try to get a better feel for the characterizations. When I look through the tags, a lot of people just straight up write them getting together and fucking without that much research put into it (even if their writing is good) while I'm fixated on characterizations and how to actually get to them fucking. I'm not a good writer either, but I know mine will suck unless I put a lot of thought in and really try to make this work.

Also whenever I write about pairings without naming them, it seems obvious to me who it is I'm writing about (although incredibly vague), but I'm sure other anon's would relate with a completely different ship kek.

>>11272
I know the feeling. My first thought was batjokes. I'm probably mistaken though

>>11274
Not batjokes, but it's so much hotter if Batman takes it up the ass, easily.

>>11280
I agree simply because Joker is too much of an ugly bastard to be uke

>>11274
>>11287
>>11280
I'm going against the grain, Batman needs to correct his rogue gallery with a good fucking, dubcon preferred.

>>11280
I read a fic where Slade got to fuck him and all his Robins in the ass, pretty hot
>>11288
Gordon please…

>>11287
My favorite DA autist would fight you irl